Resources
Overview
Welcome to our Resources page! Here, you’ll find a collection of books, podcasts, websites, and other valuable links that explore various aspects of polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, relationship anarchy, and intentional relationships. Whether you're just starting your journey or looking to deepen your understanding, these resources offer diverse perspectives and insights to help you navigate your unique relationship style. We encourage you to explore, learn, and share these resources with others in the community. Happy reading and listening!
Books
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Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy — by Jessica Fern, published 2020
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Polywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships — by Jessica Fern, published 2023
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The HEARTS of Being Polysecure: Creating Secure Attachments in Multiple Relationships — by Jessia Fern, published 2023
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The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent — by Betty Martin, published 2021
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Nonmonogamy and Neurodiversity — by Alyssa Gonzalez, Published 2023
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Nonmonogamy and Sex Work — by Zara Shah published 2024
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How Do I Sexy? A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers — by Mx. Nillin Lore, published 2024
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Post-Nonmonogamy and Beyond — by Andrea Zanin published 2024
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Nonmonogamy and Death — by Kayden Abley, published 2024
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Nonmonogamy and Happiness — by Carrie Jenkins, published 2023
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A Polyamory Devotional: 365 Daily Reflections for the Consensually Nonmonogamous — by Evita Sawyers, published 2023
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Nonmonogamy and Teaching — by Ashley Speed, published 2022
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Ask Yourself: The Consent Culture Workbook — by Kitty Stryker, published 2023
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More Than Two, Second Edition: Cultivating Nonmonogamous Relationships with Kindness and Integrity — by Eve Rickert, Andrea Zanin, published 2 September 2024
- Note we only recommend the second edition of this book which has different authors from the original, note from Eve Rickert in their blog around this edition.
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Playing Monogamy — by Simon(e) van Saarloos, published 2015.
Documents
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Relationship Anarchy Manifesto — by Andie Nordgren (5-10 min read)
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The Road to Relationship Anarchy — by Andi Nordgreen (5 min read)
Websites
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Consent Can’t Wait — Australian Government website.
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Wheel of Consent — by Betty Martin.
Podcasts
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Multiamory — Multiamory offers support and advice for modern relationships: polyamory, monogamy, monogamish, swinging, casual dating, relationship anarchy, and more.